For the record

When digging through my e-mail archives this morning, I found this gem of Jen-wisdom, on what I seek in someone I'm dating:

They don't necessarily have to be settled, just have their general shit together. You know, not living with their parents, have a steady job somewhat related to what they want to do with their lives, and NOT getting in touch with their inner selves. I want to date people who know enough to leave their inner selves ALONE.

Now, that's what I said two years ago ... and it still holds true.